Six Compelling Reasons to Send Your Children to a Christian School
By: Dr. Wayne Grodin
The main reason my wife Margaret and I sent our children to our local Christian school was a conviction that Scripture directs Christian parents to give their children a Bible-based education whenever they have opportunity to do so. I have listed here six Biblical principles that we found very persuasive.
1. All of a child’s education should be Bible-centered and God-centered. “Parents, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4). I’m saddened when Christian parents tell me of the frustration and stress their children experience in secular schools, but I also wonder if parents aren’t doing exactly what Ephesians 6:4 says not to do: putting their children, day after day, in situations that “exasperate” them, that “provoke them to anger,” or to sorrow or frustration. Training that is not “of the Lord” will do that: the contrast in the verse (“do not exasperate...instead bring them up in the training of the Lord”) tells us we should expect “exasperated” children from secular education.
2. Education should be positive and truthful. Sometimes parents think that a secular environment will “strengthen” their children by forcing them to stand up for their own beliefs. However, God’s Word does not endorse that viewpoint. It does not say, “give a child twelve years of training in the way he should not go, and he will be made strong by it.” Instead, God tells us, “Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it” (Proverbs 22:6). I know of no verse of Scripture that tells me that secular training will “strengthen” Christian children. It may callous them, so they view sin as more “normal.” It may harden them, so they care more about the things of the world and less about God. It may desensitize them so they are more comfortable living in the midst of repeated sin against their Lord. But it will not strengthen them as Christian men and women: “Train a child in the way he should go.”
3. Peer influence should be positive and Christ-like. Parents sometimes think it helps or strengthens their children to spend much time with children who have different moral standards and goals for life. However, God’s Word disagrees and reminds us that children will tend to become increasingly like their frequent companions. “He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm” (Proverbs 13:20). “Do not be deceived, ‘Bad company ruins good morals’” (I Corinthians 15:13). This year we have seen the results of good peer influence in our boys’ lives. They have picked up from friends at our Christian Academy a deeper concern for prayer, for purity of speech, for missions, for kindness of others, for respect for authority, etc. And in general they’re happier! They love their school. Their education is the kind God wants it to be–and even very young children sense that, although they cannot explain it.
4. Every teacher’s pattern of life should be worthy of imitation. Children are great imitators. A teacher they like will have a tremendous impact not only on studies, but on attitudes toward all aspects of life. Jesus knew that, for He said, “Every one when he is fully taught will be like his teacher” (Luke 6:40).
5. Only God-centered education gives true wisdom. “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom” (Psalm 111:10). “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge” (Proverbs 9:10). “In Christ are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge” (Colossians 2:3). This is the reason our secular educational systems have strayed from the truth. Is it foolish to think we can get a true perspective on God’s creation from a system that begins by excluding His words? Here is the issue: Do you really think the Bible works in the real world? Does it give crucial guidance in modern life? If not–if we quietly assume the Bible is mainly intended for use inside Sunday school classes–then secular education will be our natural choice. However, if we do think the Bible guides us in all areas of life, then we’ll give our children education that applies Scripture to every area of training for life.
6. Christian school is the best hope for transforming society. Jesus tells us, “You are the salt of the earth...you are the light of the world” (Matthew 5:13,14). Society is to be influenced and guided by Christians! But why aren’t we doing this more today? I think the largest reason is our meek acceptance of secular education all the way from kindergarten to the university Ph.D. School is where we learn to think. It is where we learn how to work and relate to others and influence the world. But if that whole process excludes God’s own viewpoint in Scripture for 12 years, our Christian witness grows accustomed to being mute, and it remains uneducated, never growing beyond the “Sunday School” level. Our lamp is “put under a bushel,” and salt loses its saltiness and is “no longer good for anything” (Matthew 5:13,15). Christian parents sometimes say they want their children to “be salt and light” in secular schools. However, how much salt and light can untrained, silent Christians be? Must we not rather train our children in Christian schools that they may become salty and brilliant lights to transform a society wandering in darkness?
I suspect that the verses here may convince you (as they convinced me) that Scripture encourages you to put your children in a Christian school. I assure you, if you do so, you will see God’s blessing on your children and whole family. For all eternity, you will not regret making this decision.
By: Dr. Wayne Grodin